“Are we there yet?” was a term coined by the family road trip. While new technology and toys may have silenced backseat conversations, spending time together in the car can still be a great opportunity for family bonding and learning. Even if you plan on bringing the latest gadget to pass the time, try saving them for the end of your trip when everyone is tired and cranky.
Deciding on a family road trip can be a daunting challenge, not to mention an exercise in patience. However if you prepare ahead of time, the trip can be one of the most memorable experiences of your family’s life.
Here are some quick and easy tips for making your family road trip a fun and safe one.
- Prepare a checklist of items you will need. This will include first aid kit, food, snacks, drinks, and lots of toys, coloring books, paper and crayons, a portable DVD player so your kids can watch their favorite movies; and a cooler. A good idea is to ask the kids what games they would like to take, within limits of course.
- Ensure that the snacks are healthy in nature. Too many sugar snacks can have the kids bouncing off the car seats. Remember, this is a relaxing family vacation and you want to avoid the kids getting bored or repeatedly asking you when you are going to arrive.
- Check online to print out games for the road that you and the kids can play along the way. There are an assortment of puzzles and riddles as well.
- In addition, if you have very young children you will need to take the diaper bag and wipes for the occasional spills, blankets and pillows if applicable and a favorite item or stuffed animal for the young ones is a good idea as well.
- Decide on the destination and then contact AAA for a trip ticket. Ask for the scenic route, one that is much more calming and pleasing to the eye, especially the driver!
- As you check out the planned route you may want to check online to find gas stations along the way that offer the cheapest gas. Also if there are any points of interest along the route mark them on the map and plan to stop at these sites.
- While on the road ensure that you make pit stops regularly. This will allow the kids to run around and let off some steam, while allowing the adults to stretch and re-energize. Bring along a football or soccer ball so that the entire family can have some fun while exercising at the same time.
- It is very important that safety concerns are met. This includes having the car checked at your local mechanic or gas station. Ensure that the oil and filter are changed; the tires are well inflated (don’t forget the spare tire, too); the windshield wipers are replaced (if needed); and the car is in great condition before you head out.
In addition, you may want to place the following items in your trunk: a lawn chair, extra blanket, emergency road kit, umbrellas, water, flashlight and batteries, a battery-powered radio, and windshield wiper cleaner. In the glove compartment include a first aid kit and cell phone charger. Keep all medications in a Ziploc bag in the glove compartment as well.
Another good idea is to take a list of telephone numbers including the hotel or motel where you are staying as well as those of family and friends you may need to contact.
If you enjoy scrapbooking, this road trip may be a perfect opportunity to add new treasures to the book. As you make stops at some scenic sites, ask the kids to find an item they would like to include in the scrapbook. Or if the kids point out something along the way that they find fascinating, take a picture of it to include in the scrapbook as well.
Engage the kids in the decision making, age appropriate, and allow them to decide what they would like to bring. Have them pack their clothes (check the suitcases afterwards) so they feel part of the overall experience. Planning ahead of time for a family road trip will save you time, stress, and money. And the kids will enjoy this adventure, too!
Here are some additional ideas from one of our favorite teachers in Travel, Little Passports, that are sure to make the time fly by (or at least go by a little faster):
- If you are signed up with Little Passports, save your most recent delivery from Sam and Sofia for your road trip so your kids learn and explore during the car ride.
- Say goodbye to your trusted GPS! Bring back the memory of car trips as a kid and use a map! The night before your trip bring out an actual map to show your intended route to your child. Even better, copy the map and pull out a highlighter so your child can follow along – and let you know when you missed a turn.
- Build in time for pit stops – and if time allows, make short stops that incorporate fun activities along the way. Everyone will need a bathroom break and a meal, but if that happens at a place right off the highway and near playground it can be better for everyone! The kids will get fed – and burn off some energy.
- Hit up a dollar store before you leave and stock up on small toys and activities to give to your kids along the way. Every hour let your child choose a surprise – a great incentive for good behavior! You can even wrap the toys for an added element of excitement.
Great article. Lots of good tips. I am going to forward this on to my daughter who has small children. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Regina! Thank you for your comment, and for the forward! I hope your daughter finds it useful 🙂
Thanks for these tips! We love taking a long road trip every summer!
We do a lot of family road trips. You have some really good tips here and I am glad you touched on safety.
Always a good idea to be prepared. Thanks for the great tips!
These are great tips! We went 8 hours with 3 small kids recently. PHEW! Lots of snacks, movies, and coloring books! 🙂
Thank you for sharing these tips! We take several long road trips every year.
A trip is daunting but you have some great advice!
super tips!! we’ve done bingo for things…it’s getting easier with the kids being 4, 6 and 8 now…they are just able to do more and “get” more
I need a family road trip. A great article with lots of great info. As soon as summer get here we will be on the road.
I LOVE roadtrips– can’t wait to go on some this summer!
Last April my family (of 6) took a roadtrip from Maine to Disney World in Florida. 🙂 We had an absolute blast…and survived the entire ride! You’ve got some great tips on how to make the ride enjoyable and not so painful!
Little Passports is awesome, used it in my homeschooling last year my kids loved it!
Road trips with friends are great, but I can’t wait to take one with my kids. I think that will be even better! My son loves “adventures”!
We move around a lot and have always used the trips from one destination to the other as a little family vacation. We like to sing, play games and listen to books on tape when we are on road trips.
My grandparents used to put my annoying kids tape in the deck and press repeat!
I have always loved planning for road trips and coming up with fun activities and ideas on things to do to stave off boredom. Your tips are additional great ideas!
These are some really great tips. I couldn’t imagine using a real map lol. Even before the GPS, I think I used to just copy a sheet of mapquest directions out from the computer 🙂
Good traveling tips. When we travel we always plan our stops at rest areas. Great way to unwind – kids run around – we relax with no pressure. I love road trips…I wish we took more of them.
Road trips are always fun with kids. However, you are creating lifetime memories!
Those are some great list. I recently did a toddler checklist for car travel and it’s almost the same as yours. You can never have too much of anything when traveling with kids. 🙂
These are great tips. We are planning a road trip over the summer so these will come in handy
Road trips are so difficult with a toddler. However, I know how truly important it is to just get away and so totally agree with you. I will definitely take these tips into consideration when we do go!
Great tips. We love to do a family trip once or twice a year.
love this article full of great tips and love the adorable picture of the stuffed horses!