If you’re lucky, you may have already taken the time and chance to discover many of your passions and get to spend much of your time enjoying things that bring you excitement and joy. On the other hand, maybe you’ve not yet connected with activities, skills, and interests that ignite your passion.
As many of learn, and sometimes the hard way, it takes time, soul-searching, and some life experience to identify your true passions. These prompts are written to tap into your wants, needs, desires, and fantasies. Have fun with them and discover what you can add to your life that will fill it with delight.
What’s the one thing I’ve always wanted to do? Consider what would need to happen in order for you to carry through with this long-sought wish. Make a plan and get started. Remember that no matter how big a step might appear right now, all that needs to be done is to take that first step.
If I could spend today doing whatever I desire, if I had no obligations today, what would I do? Let your mind go. It could be something related to your work, your home, or simply a lark. Perhaps there is a spa treatment that you have been meaning to book yourself in for!
Where do I really want to live? What city and what type of residence? Perhaps you’re already fulfilling this passion and you do live in your true first choice. If not, take some time to truly ponder the possibilities of living in a place that makes your heart sing. For now, place yourself there in your imagination whenever the need arises.
Where would I like to visit? Perhaps you’re harboring a secret yearning to visit Washington, D.C. or Westminster Abbey in London. The streets of Hong Kong may be calling your name or even the Grand Canyon. Can you make it happen?
What do you need to do to make it happen, to make it feasible? Write a list out, and begin to implement the steps you need to embark upon your journey.
What do I talk about doing but never do it? In a conversation, you might state something like, “For the last 10 years, I’ve really wanted to take a cruise to the Caribbean.” Even try shifting this statement to bring this into a closer reality for you. Perhaps you say to yourself, “Soon, I will be taking a cruise to the Caribbean.” Watch how things around you begin to shift.
What are the reasons I don’t go after my dreams? Explore within yourself why you haven’t pursued the life you want. Can you do something differently to help bring your dreams to life? Embrace the possibilities, and the realities, that you are the creator and architect of your days. Move from this place of inner knowing.
What are the things in my life that I would like to get rid of? If you’re discovering you don’t love everything about your life, maybe it’s time to do some “housecleaning.” Make a list of the ways you’d like your life to change. Perform the necessary purging that you know is required for you to move forward with your innermost dreams and goals.
Begin to take steps toward forgiving whoever you may still hold grudges toward, do a body cleanse of some sort, go through your home with a fine-toothed comb and clear out what you no longer need and is simply ‘taking up space’.
Which people in my life inspire me and why? It’s important to know who inspires you so you can spend more time with them. What is it about them that lights you up so much? Decide to take every necessary step to be inspired more often. Inspiration is a flame which needs to be fanned on a regular basis!
If I were to make just one radical change in my life right now to make life better, what would it be? Your answer to this question will really open up your possibilities. Moving to a bigger city might really spice up your life. Getting more education in a field that stimulates you, mind body and soul, might be a goal—plus you’ll likely make more money.
How do I feel when I put all my effort into accomplishing one of my goals? Notice these feelings. You’ll no doubt want to experience them more often. And once you reach a level of joy that you previously may not have felt, it will be easier to get yourself back to that joyous state the next time you make a move towards it.
How do I feel whenever I achieve a life goal? Awesome, probably.
What’s missing from my life? Answering this question requires considerable soul-searching. When I can’t seem to get to the bottom of things that I feel upset about, angry about, or in lack of, then I grab a pen and a journal and begin writing furiously to get it all out. Almost without fail, that which I previously could not figure out or uncover will begin to reveal itself to me.
Who are my biggest supporters? It’s wise to know the people that will stand behind you and help you pursue your passions, no matter what. Whether you plan to keep your goals to yourself, or if you choose to let some people in on your plans, be sure to let your ‘circle of people’ know that you could use their support and good wishes.
Just knowing that there are kindred spirits thinking of you and looking out for your well-being can give you that extra edge to complete your goals.
Who gets in the way of me achieving my goals? In order to find your true passions, you might be required to disengage from those who wish to counteract your efforts. If there are thought patterns or programs that surface for you continually, patterns that ask you to step back from your dreams and ‘be realistic’, then do your best to clear these programs.
Write new notes to yourself, with new and empowering messages. Write them on sticky notes if you need to, and plaster them everywhere. I have some inspiring wall decal quotes throughout my house, with quotes that continually remind me to stay on track. Even if I don’t ‘look’ at them all the time, I know they are there, and they just make me happy!
If you take the time to thoroughly ponder each of these questions, you’ll be pleased with what you discover. Your true passions are inside you, just waiting to be let loose to bring you excitement, joy, and fulfillment.
Here is some lovely, inspirational writing from a fellow Metis, Aaron Paquette. He is a brilliant artist and a very talented writer, and I could not resist sharing his latest write up. Enjoy!
The lesson is simple. Let go of the desire for things that you think are valuable and they will fall away, revealing your everlasting, shining spirit.
I wouldn’t tell you what to believe but I would urge you to examine the feeling of lack in your life, the feeling that there is not enough. If you were to spend a day, and another and another in gratitude and humour for what is at hand that sustains you, it would open the door for a fundamental shift in your perception of your wants and needs.
There’s no point in comparing your relative wealth to someone living homeless in the Third World, just as there is no point in comparing your relative poverty to Bill Gates.
Both comparisons will simply feed your ego, for good or ill, and bring you feelings of shame. Comparison is the fastest route I know of to unhappiness.
If you must compare your life, then compare it to the deer who runs freely, the wolf that hunts, the bear that sleeps. Compare the impact of your existence to the marching ant or the spinning spider who reminds us that we are all connected by the great web of life.
Remember that in that web, what you do to one life comes back to your own in some way or another. When you kill the songbird, your song also dies. When you take the life of an animal – without humility, awareness and gratitude – you take the life of the land, and so, eventually, your own life as well.
We see this unfortunate truth playing out in front of our eyes. They killed the buffalo, they now cull the wolf. They rip the resources from the land without thanking the land. They cut the trees and foul the water. They destroy the diversity of the fields for single crops and spray chemicals on it to obliterate the insects who feed on those crops.
And with sorrow we see the rivers clog with soil runoff. We can no longer drink safely from the streams. The lakes are overrun with algae and even the honeybees are dying.
We destroy our ability to live on the land itself, all because we have forgotten to be grateful, to listen to the song of our spirit.
This is why it’s necessary to stop, to be silent, to let go of the desire for material things and immaterial things.
As we treat our own spirit, so too, do we treat the land, and neither can survive the harm caused by neglect, anger, apathy and greed.
The great orator, Chief Canasatego said:
“We know our lands have now become more valuable. The white people think we do not know their value; but we know that the land is everlasting, and the few goods we receive for it are soon worn out and gone.”
There are only so many heartbeats given to every living being. You have already used up many of your own. For those that remain, use them well.
hiy hiy
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Words & Art: Aaron Paquette
Painting: The Past Shows Us The Way
WOW – amazing questions! I will be thinking about my answers. Bookmarked your post…I want to answer each question. FANTASTIC POST!
Thank you for this reminder! We all need to stop, breathe, and take some time to discover what it is that makes us feel alive!
I love the quote and picture that you open with. Thank you for sharing, I will be sharing it too with my family!
If I had a day with no obligations I would try to catch up on the years of sleep that I am behind 🙂
Haha! I hear you on that one, Robin 😉
Wow… you’ve really got my brain going! LOL Thanks for all the “food for thought”!
My passion is to write, and help others learn to cook. I think blogging is a great outlet to express myself, and reach out.
A delight filled life is a recent goal of mine. Just because life is work doesn’t mean you can’t find delight in it.
I plan to enjoy all the heartbeats I have left.
These are really great points to ponder – jumping off points to thinking about what we really want out of life.
SO TRUE! as our neighbor says, you only get one trip on this roller coaster!!
If I could do what I wanted today w/o obligations I would spend the day sewing, I miss it!
Lovely quote! Thanks for the writing prompts. I’m going to bookmark this post. I’ve been in a bit of a blogging rut lately, and hopefully reading through some of these will inspire me!
Hi Mariana! Thank you 🙂 May you find your blogging groove again soon~*
These are great prompts, and definitely food for thought. I love the question, “What do I talk about doing but never do it?” and the idea of shifting the way you talk about it. Such a good tip!
I definitely need to start a list of places I’d like to visit so I can work on making that happen!
I love this post, I have a HUGe list of places I want to visit and it does help so much!
Now You Got Me Thinking I So Just Want Me Time But NEVER Do It!!! LOL!
What an inspirational post! Thank you!
Gosh what a bunch of great questions!! I would love to sit down and think about all of this. I’m sure I would be surprised with my outcome.
Beautiful reminder! I love the quote at the beginning. I need to take some time to refocus!